There is a Bible character named Lot who never impressed me. I didn't like most anything he did, yet he is now in heaven, according to the New Testament. He had many people around him that were sinful but on the inside he was righteous. He had a faith in God and was a believer. I never understood him until recently.
Many people around us are going through life doing things that appear normal. It is easy to get dragged into what they are doing. But often what they are doing grieves the soul of a believer because there are few neutral things.
I still don't approve of Lot's choices. It is just that now, I understand better what he went through.